We just found a very insightful YouTube video by Surviving and Thriving. The description of the channel says she’s dedicated to spreading awareness of narcissistic abuse as well as healing tips for survivors and adult children of narcissistic parents.
Sounds great to us!
Like she says, when it comes to abusive relationships with a narcissist, over time the narcissist looks healthier and healthier while their target looks sicker and sicker.
We couldn’t agree more.
There are a ton of great nuggets in this video. One of them is the observation that narcissists will often use the phrase “I know who you really are” to put their target down and get the upper hand psychologically.
But we can fight back. By being aware of this and other tactics they use, we can see what’s truly going on. And that’ll help us not fall prey to their mind games (or at least recover quicker when we do).
We hope you learn one profound thing from this video. Enjoy!